I wanted to introduce myself and also give BIG kudos to Datetopia for
starting a group that will hopefully help me on some big questions
for which I cannot find answers. Conversely, I hope to provide my own
years of experiences starting and stopping development, inadequate
promotion, changing a live site too often, yada yada.. Big mistakes --
ad neauseum...

However, I'm finally beginning to learn and hopefully (out of the 8 or
9 dating sites) maybe one of them will take off.
~Jeff~

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scripts I use:

aeDating 4.001
MojoPersonal Classifieds
Dating Site Builder 2.02
phpBazar 2.2
AZdGDating
osDate
Altrasoft e-Friends (SocNetorking)
APT25 (A Personal Touch) 'old CGI script'
an Add-on Dating mod for Mambo.

working on these simulatneously.

Visit: <http://www.m4mdating.net>
I've totally tweaked the CSS; now, the hard stuff.